Dating Rule #3 : What Women Don't Want

There are a lot of things that women don’t want to see in a men, or rather, prefer not to see. It varies from woman to woman. However, below is a list of the main things that women don't want to see in their man.

Don’t-wants

1. Wandering Eye Syndrome - Too often we guys let our eyes wander around when talking to women. It wanders more often than not, to things that catch our eyes like a hot babe or a hot babe. Basically, hot babes. THIS IS SOMETHING WE MUST GET RID OF. Women feel terribly insulted when your eye wanders off elsewhere, whether it be a balloon or a hot babe (much more serious), as this shows that something besides themselves won over your attention and in that brief moment, you actually lost interest in them. So, whether it be a nude babe jumping around in front of you or crawling on all fours , be sure to maintain your eye contact on her.

2. Too Close On First Date – sure, she might have agreed to go out with you on a date, but that doesn’t mean automatic access to her personal space. Respect a woman’s personal space, intruding too much into it would be rude and make you seem pushy and desperate. There’s nothing wrong with playing it slow, in fact, i would personally recommend taking first dates slow! You don’t have to nail anything on your first date, nor perhaps on your second, you should use the first few dates to establish how wonderful you are, and don’t drop any signs of horniness to her as let’s face it, woman are in it for the love, we men are in it for the sex.

3. Don’t Talk About Your Ex! - Never EVER talk about your ex with a girl you’re interested in. It would only bring up unnecessary comparisons and make her feel uncomfortable. Firstly, bringing up a topic about your ex would hint (even if you didn’t mean it) that you’re not over her. Your ex is gone, remember, that chapter is closed, locked up and thrown away, never bring it up in front of a girl you’re interested in. Furthermore, it shows your insecurities and it’s practically as good as washing your dirty lines in public. In the event where you have to relate to something you did like a place you went with your ex, just replace the ‘ex’ with something like ‘a friend’.

4. Don’t Start Off As A Boyfriend – Remember, when interested in a girl, don’t start off as if you’re her boyfriend. Don’t skip the friendship phase (many people do this), as relationships are built from friendships, jumping straight into a relationship without getting to know a girl for long enough would only spell disaster in the long run, trust me, I’ve been there. -shivers.

5. Don’t Get Jealous – Never act as if you own her rights. Don’t be jealous when other guys talk to her, instead, graciously step aside and show them your confidence in yourself and how you consider none of them a threat. Such an act would give her the impression that you treat yourself as the alpha male and are not afraid that other guys would beat you to her. Women like to play the jealousy game, when they realize it has no effect on you, the tables are suddenly turned and they become desperate for you. I’ve seen this work one too many times already, a wonderful tactic.

Remember, it is not enough to attain all the good qualities that women want to see in their man, you would also need to avoid all the qualities as mentioned above to be able to be the perfect man to them. Successfully avoid such qualities and you're one step closer to being that perfect man every women can only dream of.