Tuesday, August 10, 2010

What Makes Men Fall In Love With A Woman

Ladies, listen up! There are certain actions you can make that causes men to suddenly decide they are in love.

Men have four relationship desires that are sometimes sparked by the smallest of dating actions performed by women.

The Desire To Protect:

Men are hardwired to nurture. They want to shelter you from danger. This action makes him feel good. Allow him to see your vulnerable side will bring him closer because it unlocks his instincts to take care of you. Let him take charge, and ALWAYS thank him after he does.

When a MAN associates you with making him feeling like Superman, then naturally he’ll want to dive deeper into the relationship. He wants to be your hero.

Find a job for him to do around your house or apartment. Ask him to fix or build you something that you need. Performing tasks for you is a way of bonding and it enhances his sense of success.

Ask his opinion about different things often. It could be about what TV program to watch or about the type of stock to purchase, the best vacations to go on or whatever...

You should wear soft clothing materials. Rayon, silk, and faux fur trigger an intense response in single men. These fabrics enhances your feminine nature and heightens his amorous instincts.

Compliment his clothes. It illustrates that you've selected him over other guys.

Freedom:

Even emotionally healthy single men want to hear certain things. Make it crystal clear that you don't expect your man to change. He will feel like you truly understand him but don't threaten his sense of who he is. That leaves him feeling solid and he may want to commit. The following actions will let him know you're not going to be glued to him.

Break a date:

Single men hate the idea of being tied down socially, so you should turn down occasional invites. He'll usually open up more when around you plus he will pursue you more.

Share your fears with him:

Men often hold back because they think girls are looking to get pregnant and start a family. So if you feel nervous about committing, let him know. He'll be reassured that you're navigating new waters too and you’re not trying to purposely trap him or get him to do something he doesn’t want to do.

Keep reinventing yourself. Make little changes in your appearance every once in awhile—do different things with your hair. Up, down, ponytail, etc. It’s a reminder for him that you've got gazillions of interesting facets to your personality. He should feel that there are no dull moments here.

Always respect his privacy and do not be a snoop. A physical space that's completely his is a huge symbol of independence to a man and he will forever be grateful. Make sure he knows you respect his privacy by not snooping in his desk drawers, emails, pants pockets, his wallet or peeping into his cell phone numbers.

Let him shine when he’s around you.

Even if you think he's cocky, he's probably still insecure. Men need to know that they're respected and appreciated. When you’re around him and his self esteem increases, both internally and in the eyes of others, he'll naturally want to be attached to you and want to be closer. Actions that show your high value and It will nudge him toward loving you.

Make him a happy man.

You should LAUGH when one of you goofs up during an intimate moment. Go to stupid movies together and laugh. Get him out the house when he gets cranky. Keep things light, even during stressful times, you'll become indispensable and you will be a force to be reckoned with.

You should be a social butterfly. Take the lead and charm the people you meet and he'll be extra grateful to have you next to him. Play games that requires problem solving… like Scrabble, puzzles, and chess -- can prod his passion. It sounds nuts, but proof of your problem-solving abilities. This shows him you’re desirable for accepting his genes and DNA. He will fall in love.

You must act like you’re the grand prize of his life. Invite him to an event where you'll excel (whether it's karaoke, tennis, golf, cards, running, poker, speaking engagement), or have him stand between you and another man whom you think is getting too close you in public.

Getting Comfortable:

When he's so comfortable with you that he stops thinking about your relationship and simply enjoys it, he'll find himself being nudged into love territory. Allow him to watch you primp yourself. Grooming your face or adjusting your skirt in front of him enhances intimacy because it's something other men don't get to watch. Just keep it very feminine. (applying lipstick or powder, etc.), not plucking the hair off your upper lip.

You should cook together to increase the bond. The more often you prep a good dinner together, the more he'll associate you with the good feelings he gets from eating good food.

You should stock your fridge with things he likes. He'll subconsciously feel at home at your place. Catnap near him or let yourself nap in his arms so he sees you in your most trusting, completely relaxed state.

What Yanks Him Back from the Brink Some Factors Will Absolutely Cause a Man To Take a Deture.

1) They Get a New Opportunity

A promotion often means spending more hours at work. Instead of balancing that with their love lives, men tend to prioritize their careers and believe that a solid relationship will endure the delay. So if something big is brewing, he may hold himself back.

2) You Never See Fault When He Screws Up?

Sure, men hate arguing, but it's worse if you DON’T react negatively when he screws up. A man will worry that (a) you're going to lash out later, (b) you're a doormat, or (c) you're not into him enough to care. Any of these will make him rethink your relationship.

3) Panic time:

Many single men worry that if they commit to you, then they'll have to give something up -- friends, pool, sports, fishing, hunting or something. So when a man realizes he's fallen for you, he may freak out and pull away for a while. If you can weather his big-baby behavior without reacting in a way that confirms those fears, he should snap out of it. Be patient. Don’t give up on him.

I hope this advice will help you get the man you want. I know you’ll want more advice on men and dating. I have lots of great FREE dating videos, articles and a FREE ebook. You’ll love it.

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