Being one of those guys that seems to have very little luck with women is NOT a good feeling. Talking to guys that really want to succeed at attracting women has allowed me to see some really common things that seem to get in the way of an average guy that WANTS badly to learn how to attract beautiful women.
Most average guys seem to suffer from a lack of confidence and experience with women. This is like a catch 22, as you cannot gain confidence with women until you have more experiences with women. You also probably won't make any kind of approach on a woman until you have the confidence.
Still, any guy can learn how to attract beautiful women. It's not rocket science. Some of those guys that are VERY good at attracting beautiful women have nothing on you, except for their ability to approach a woman.
Here are 5 powerful tips that will allow you to attract a woman and start seeing the kind of dating success that you NEED.
1. Know in your own mind that no woman is really out of your league.
The mindset is REALLY important if you want to attract a beautiful woman. You cannot allow yourself to be easily intimidated or talk yourself out of even getting to know her simply because you assume that she will not have anything to do with YOU. It's your mind that tells you this. Sure, there are going to be times where you do feel the cold shoulder from a woman, but not every time.
2. Don't assume that you don't have the "goods" to appeal to a beautiful woman.
Some guys will allow themselves to be limited due to the fact that they think they don't make enough money or they don't have the right physique or they don't have a "power" job. None of this is really as important as being able to use your charm to appeal to a woman.
3. Beautiful women get hit with the cheesiest of lines all of the time.
So, don't even bother with them. Seriously. A lot of guys will try to hunt down that perfect line that will work hook, line and sinker on any woman that they want, and they miss out on the bigger picture. A line just opens a conversation. That's it.
4. You've go to do some of the talking and let her do some.
When you are talking to a woman, it's easy to allow yourself to kind of go on and on and not even let her get a breath in. This is especially true if you really want to impress a woman. However, you want to have an interaction with her, so you have to let her do some of the talking.
5. She's got to see VALUE in YOU.
While you don't have to be rich and you don't have to be a Wall Street type to attract beautiful women, there does have to be something of VALUE that she sees in YOU. Your personality can be more than enough to make her feel like she has to be around you.
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