Yes, I understand how you are feeling. It's very common to feel jittery. Giving the girl you like her first kiss can be a very exciting but yet very frightening and especially if it is also your first kiss. Hey, when the moment is right and you know how to kiss her the right way, you may even make her fall in love with you even more.
However, if your first kiss is done the wrong way, you may even kiss goodbye to your next date. Not to worry though as here are some pointers on how to kiss a woman for the first time and make her want more.
This might be common sense, but many men in the midst of excitement seem to forget this basic kissing principle. Rule number #1 in kissing a girl is to keep your breath fresh. This is crusially important! Make sure you also brush your tongue every time you brush your teeth, and do both regularly.
Next, avoid drinks and foods with strong pungent smells like alcohol, garlic or onions. Don't smoke if you are a smoker. Many girls are turned off by the smell of stale ashtrays coming out from your breath. For a quick freshness scent, keep some mints handy but remember that they are only aids to help your breath stay fresh.
It is also crucial to watch out for cues that your date is feeling close and comfortable with you, such as enjoying your company, holding your hand tightly but warmly, smiling & laughing during your conversations, touching or caressing your forearm and even leaning her head on your shoulder. These are her body language to tell you that she is ready for you to kiss her. Don't initiate kissing her if all these body languages are missing. If you do, you may never get the opportunity to date her out again.
On your part, do not surprise your date with that first kiss. Test the water and send body language hints so as to let her know what is in your mind. That means do what you wanted her to do like leaning in towards her, holding her hands and gently tugging it toward you. Then wait for her response. If she matches your action, that is her telling you subtlely that she is ready for that first kiss.
If she does not reciprocate your body language or worse, turns her head away, then the time is not ripe for the picking, just yet. Never never never force a kiss on any women because by doing that, you are writing your own death sentence in dating her again not to say ejoying another kiss!
When you finally kissed her, start with a simple short closed mouth light smack. If she responds well to that, then do another few more with some time gap during the night. Continue doing this, and as long as she is still game for it, then it is time to start making your a kisses little longer and more passionate.
An important rule in giving your date her first kiss is to always move in slowly. This is because moving in too quickly may get her to reject your advance instinctively. That is her intinctive defence machanism at work. On the other hand, deliberate slow moves are exciting and romantic and can even turn her on making her fall for you even more.
So the next question is how far should you go with the first date kiss? Well, the unwritten rule of the dating game is not to expect too much on your first kiss. A short closed mouth kiss is already an excellent begining. Several of such kisses are even better.
Once your date is responding positively, you can continue to get closer. Open your mouth slightly and see if she reacts in the same way. Even if you managed to get an open mouth kiss, do not use your tongue to french her just yet. Have some patience and your fruit of labor will be much sweeter.
Leave the french kisses to the next date because this is also an exciting moment for your date and when you leave her hanging there, she will be looking forward to the next date hoping that you will french kiss her by then. In the game of seduction and flirting, this move is called attraction by rejection.
Why are you still reading this article? Go and give her the first kiss now!
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