Saturday, July 31, 2010

How to Make Women Laugh and Attracted to You

Are you one of those guys who need to muster up your courage to approach women and then quickly deliver your well rehearsed pick up lines? If you are, then unless you are an expert pick up artiste, you will know that it is a frightening affair just to do that because of the fear of rejection, right?

Most guys wrongly think that when approaching a woman you are attracted to for the very first time, you will need to say some clever pickup lines. Well, let me tell you that you do not need any cheesy pick up lines to make women laugh and become interested in you. I bet you are surprised by this bold statement.

Now, don't you find it boring to just strike up a conversation, then hoping that by doing so you can spark off some attraction in her for you? You know something? If you do just that, like most other guys do, most of the time, she will get bored with you because you are well, just another guy who is trying to impress her. Yawn.

Ok, now I am going to show you an incredibly effective method of approaching attractive women without even saying a word! Now before you read on, I have to warn you that many of you will find that this idea is too incredulous to work. However, before you come to that conclusion, let it be known that women like to be pleasantly surprised and one of the most effective ways to gain a woman's attention and attraction is by making her laugh.

So just give this method a shot instead of shrugging it off and be pleasantly surprised by the women you use it on. This flirting technique in picking up girls works 90% of the time for me and my clients and best of all, you don't even have to say a single word. Have I got your interest level up?

You see, when a girl is in alone in a public area, it is only natural for her to look around and observe her surroundings. So when you notice an attractive girl you are interested in, wait until she looks at your direction and sees you. The moment when you caught her eyes, just gaze into her eyes and hold the gaze.

At this juncture, you have 2 choices to make. You can either hold the eye contact and until she looks away or hold the eye contact and flirt with her by flashing an over exaggerated face that will make her smile or even laugh. Think of Jim Carrey or Mr Bean.

Personally, I prefer the playful funny face option. Why does this incredulous flirting technique work? The simple reason is that most people display a serious demeanor when they are in a public setting. So you can set yourself apart from the dull faces everywhere by displaying a funny attitude when the woman sees you. Even without saying a word, you are already telling her that you are different from the rest and is going to be a fun guy that she will want to meet and even date.

You see, women use eye contact to show their interest in guys and so if the girl laughs, smiles, or displays any sign of interest because of your facial gymnastics, then she have already given you the "come and approach me signal" which is your unwritten invitation to walk over to her and start a conversation. Sometimes, this flirting trick may even make her approach you and pick you up instead.

So the next question will be naturally what type of faces to make, isn't it? Well, there really isn't any real hard and fast rules, just do something with your face to make her laugh or at least smile, but refrian from doing anything lewd or disgusting.

Common techniques in flirting this way is to give the woman a slightly childish look or you can stick out your tongue, put on a pouty look, a naughty wink, or display a demure and mock embarrassed expression. You may also want to try giving her a fake angry look and then quickly break into a smile or tilt your head like the "what's up" expression or just simply send a cute quick wave.

There are many more things you can do, so be creative and practice the facial expressions until you are good at it for you to have the confidence to use this technique to flirt with her successfully. So the more you practise, the more funny and confident you will be.

So you see, you don't need complicated pick up lines to start a conversation with women. A simple smile and a friendly attitude can be the best opener you will ever need.

When using this approach women technique, don't be surprised if she looks away from you at first. This is because making first contact with a total stranger can be rather uncomfortable for many girls, so try this approach a few times and you will notice that most of the time, the girls will look away and then after a few seconds, she will turn to look at you again.

Now, when she looks at you again, it is time to up the ante by smiling, nodding your head at her, rasing your glass to toast her or simply walk over and start a conversation! As simple as that!

You will also discover that the more playful you are, the more open she will be to you. So, there is absolutely no reason why you have to memorise lines and lines of cheesy pick up lines to approach women, right? Go, try it and experience overwhelming success with women.

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