Two Attractive Qualities a Man Wants in a Woman

One Attractive Quality A Man Wants Is.... "Emotional Maturity"

Most men don't understand the feelings that women have. They don't understand what the feelings are. And they don't understand where they come from.

What's the largest negative stereotype out there that men put on women… The big awful one I hear is that lots of women are "crazy". "Man, that girl was CRAZY. Good thing I found out before I got too involved!"

It's not nice that a man wouldn't have more sensitivity and understanding for a woman, but it's what often happens in reality. A man thinking of a woman as "crazy" often simply comes from a man not understanding how and why a woman is having the painful feelings she's experiencing.

So to him, it simply looks like she's a wreck emotionally. And therefore he thinks she's the kind of woman he would never want to get close to for fear of her freaking out and causing him more and more "drama" in his life. What some men don't understand about women is that the purpose and beauty of connecting with someone and having a relationship isn't just about how much fun you can have together...

But about the amazing experience that comes from becoming deeply attached.

And when there's a "disconnect" of some kind, and the man hasn't allowed himself to become deeply attached emotionally, but the woman has... it's often impossible for a man to understand what a woman is feeling. And why she's feeling it.

The biggest mistake women make when dating is what I call the "Instant Relationship".

This is where you feel so great about the connection you have with a man that you start talking and acting as though you and he are in a committed relationship.

Even though you're still just "dating" in his mind. When a woman starts talking about "how great their relationship will be"...

Or makes too many future plans with a man...

Or starts DEMANDING his time and attention in a way that only a woman who felt entitled to him would...

Or gets upset when a man acts in a way that shows they aren't in a relationship, even though she's acting like it... It's a HUGE TURN OFF to a man.

To him, it looks like that lame guy word- "Crazy." To the woman, she can't understand how he can be so uncaring and insensitive. What's important, if you want to find an amazing partner and start a great relationship... is to learn to LOVE more CONSCIOUSLY. (Even if you are just dating)

Loving more consciously means allowing yourself to become emotionally attached and share your feelings openly - even if it feels uncomfortable or painful because you don't get exactly what you want. When you're focused NOT on how to get the relationship or the pay-off you want when you're dating, but on how to be open to loving and NO MATTER WHAT comes your way... this is allows you to be free to whatever is.

A woman who has this attitude is not only extremely fun and attractive to a man... But she's also able to really roll with the punches and keep herself emotionally grounded and centered in a positive way no matter what happens.

When a man recognizes that a woman is both loving AND that she keeps her composure and can handle herself in a loving way even if she feels hurt or upset... there's almost nothing that says "Girlfriend Material" than a woman like this.