At high school we would often attend the local dances and discos in order to meet girls. But as per usual, come the end of the night I would be no closer to meeting a girl than I was at the start of the night.
Even though school and the associated social events seem like the ideal pick up scenario, socially, school crowds develop a pecking order very quickly and various groups have their own 'clicks' and this is how the different levels of social acceptance are formed. So depending on which group of friends you are with often determined your luck with the ladies.
In order to break away from the reputation or set of social standings handed down to me by my school peers, I soon realized that the real world was an enormous place compared to the tiny drop in the ocean I had experienced at school, and in order to make a name for myself and meet girls I needed to figure out the best places to hang out in order to meet new love interests.
Night clubs and bars are great to go out and unwind after a long week, but how many people do you know have met their soul mate on a crowded dance floor which is a less then ideal situation to really get to know someone - to see whether you click when there is no alcohol involved. So if it's a bit of a fling you are seeking then you may have some luck in a night club but it's not the ideal scenario for those looking for love.
Shopping centers are another great location girls go to so they can relax and unwind with other girlfriends. I don't think I have met a woman yet that hates shopping. We have learnt that timing is very important with this approach. Busier days such as weekends bring in groups of girls, however during the week days girls often shop alone and will tend to personalize their shopping and are more likely to buy lingerie and summer dresses for example. What better way to strike up a conversation that to offer to critique a pretty girls new wears.
Perfume stores are probably the easiest stores in the shopping centre to find. You will be able to smell the fragrance long before you locate the actual store. And if you can smell it, trust me, so can the women. The ladies adore all those little pre-packaged assortments like gels and lotions.
After a full on day of fighting the crowds and lining up in cues, try your luck in one of the shopping centre coffee shops, everyone loves to stop for a 'time out' over a good coffee.
Women love to be mentally challenged and a book store is a great way to make interesting conversation. It's an easy way to break the ice by offering your own take on subjects she is interested in.
Although not everyone can walk up to a pretty girl and start making small talk. It can be a little intimidating for some. So to build on your confidence give online dating ago! There is an estimated 100 million singles registered on dating sites worldwide so go and see why so many people are opting for online dating services over conventional dating.
Regardless of the scenario of where you decide to find your honey, women love to be complimented and she will show her appreciation in anything kind and thoughtful you have to say. Everything in life is a law of averages, so sooner or later your number will come up!
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